“If you can’t pay it back, pay it forward.” This quote by Catherine Ryan Hyde encompasses the spirit and vision of Adhyan. The story of Adhyan is Priya’s story. As a child, she was always taught by her mother that helping people in need was an important part of the human experience. The quantum of help didn’t matter, she was told, what mattered was the thought and intention behind it.
Being led, run and fuelled by women, we at Adhyan, understand the unique challenges faced by women and children in India and around the world. From violence and systemic marginalisation, to the gender pay gap and lack of social infrastructure, women and children are impeded from reaching their potential at every turn.
At Adhyan, we believe that enabling women to be their own changemakers can change the world. As women rise, so do our children, our homes, and our communities. It is this salient belief that motivates our purpose.
How Adhyan came to be.
As a child, I was always taught by my mother that helping people in need was an important part of the human experience. The quantum of help didn’t matter, she would say, what mattered was the thought and what came from that intention. She led by example in this matter by donating her time, transcribing text for the visually handicapped, for as long as I can remember.
It was only after her passing eleven years ago that I started receiving messages, letters, and calls from her friends and family members all over the world narrating how much she had helped them over the years. Some in big ways financially, some in really small ways. But overall, people were grateful and inspired by her strength and courage. Though we were extremely close as mother and daughter, she had never mentioned to me most of the things she had done over the years. This left an indelible mark on me.
Through the many years of her long, painful tryst with kidney failure and dialysis, my mother taught me some of the most valuable lessons in life— survival, endurance, hope, the power of a positive attitude and the cultivation of inner strength. I still remember her favourite phrases were “learn to make lemon juice when life throws you lemons” and “if you think you can, you can”. These pearls of wisdom have indeed been my anthems through life, as I endured my share of heartbreaking experiences, both personal and professional, which tested me physically, mentally and emotionally.
My life’s journey has shown me what it means to shoulder responsibility at a young age, to care for sick family members and endure loss, to deal with pain and betrayal, to lose identity and find it again, and to confront and survive mental health issues.
There is nothing worse than watching your loved ones suffer while you stand helplessly by. But watching them survive despite their challenges, and even overcome them, has inspired me and made me determined to put to good use the resources I am fortunate to have. I am blessed to have my father, cousins, in-laws and friends help me through my own transformation with support, love, and deep compassion. Most importantly, they have given me hope.
Adhyan stands for one who is rising. It was founded on the premise of hope, survival, love, compassion, and grit.
I believe that my life purpose of paying it forward was crystallized through my own kensho moments and spiritual journey. The arduous journey of trying to provide my son with an equitable platform to thrive also honed my clarity of purpose to strive for a better future for those who are disadvantaged.
Today I bear a deep sense of gratitude to God and the universe for synchronously orchestrating the arrival of people, modes of healing, and connections that made it possible for me to find my way out of this maze of brokenness.
Above all, the hope and unconditional love I was given by family, friends and often complete strangers, made my soul rise and shine.
As I look back at my life, and I connect the dots, it is clear that I got to choose the direction in which I wanted my life to sail. I was never a victim of circumstance, but the captain of my own ship. Life is happening for me, not to me. My son chooses to rise every day. I choose to rise. At Adhyan, we choose to rise. Come Rise With Us!
How we fund -
Trust based Philanthropy
Adhyan does philanthropy differently by implementing a model called trust-based philanthropy. Using trust as a starting point, we want to be able to break down the traditional power dynamic between funder and grantee and create a collaborative environment that supports listening and learning. This means that we fund organizations at every level of their work from capacity-building and operational support to leadership and learning. We believe unrestricted, multi-year commitments allow organizations to be creative, adaptive and innovative. We don’t ask organizations to send us a number of verification documents, write time-consuming grant applications or send us detailed reports every quarter.
We have simplified and streamlined the paperwork required thereby reducing the administrative burden on our grantees and giving them more time to focus on their missions. We discuss what’s worked and what hasn’t over the years so we all work together to enable women and children to rise up from their circumstances.